Things to think about before trying international dating

Ksenia L.
3 min readDec 21, 2021

Meeting a Russian or Ukrainian woman on the internet is a wonderful, entertaining, intriguing, and exciting journey, especially if you are single and interested in international dating. However, failing to be aware of these little-known secrets might find you in hot water.

1. Some women create accounts on dating sites solely for the purpose of cheating.

Yes, some individuals trick, and even scam other online dating site users with whom they are “dating.” So please be wise in order to avoid being fooled or scammed.

Never give up your credit card information or start sending financial support to someone you’ve never met in person.

Remember that you have no idea about the person’s real character or whereabouts to track them down if something happens.

2. Long-distance relationships aren’t for everyone.

It does, however, work for some people who live far apart. Others, on the other hand, find it difficult to accept.

You won’t have a good picture of how this Russian or Ukrainian woman is in real life, much alone her personality or how she interacts with others.

That’s why it’s a good idea to choose a well-optimized international dating site that collects user information and categorizes it by gender, age, country, physical appearance — allowing you to locate the one who matches your personality and preferences.

So that you can quickly look for and meet a woman who shares your interests in order to set up a real-life date and build your connection.

3. Being too picky may keep you single for a long time.

It’s heartbreaking to realize that life doesn’t always provide us with the ideal soul partner with whom we wish to spend our lives.

Please be patient. It doesn’t mean won’t find the woman you’re looking for. You desire certain personality features in your ideal mate, don’t you? But just because one or a few of your desirable characteristics aren’t there in that woman’s profile and character doesn’t indicate you’ll reject her, correct?

So don’t anticipate too much, and don’t get your hopes up. Otherwise, you could be disappointed.

4. Being attractive is more important than ever.

It’s strange how women who engage in international dating prefer to assess a guy based on his appearance rather than his character.

That’s why it appears to be more about finding someone who “looks cute” on their profile and going out on a date with them rather than truly beginning a true and meaningful relationship.

This is disappointing for other singles who have positive attitudes like love for children, patience, humility, and honesty yet do not “look good” on their profile.

Too much emphasis nowadays is placed on how someone seems on the outside rather than who they are on the inside. Also, other than a person’s sense of humor, it’s impossible to actually come to know a person’s true opinions over the internet.

Finally, despite the abundance of deception, frauds, and imposters out there, there are a few international dating services that can assist individuals like you in finding their ideal woman.

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